My therapist told me I would never live a normal life. I agreed with that. Now that we're both uncomfortable with that topic. Let's never speak of it, again.
Non-violent. Drinking may be fine, but no reason to be alcoholic to avoid the truth of the matter. I suppose smoking is acceptable. Only killing yourself with that one.
you're not wrong that i don't want to hear it but i'm not buying it.
being self-sacrificing is fine in the right doses at the very least it's nothing that'd hurt sho otherwise anyone who's a police officer, a firefighter, or in any occupation that involves danger for the sake of helping others isn't up for consideration so no
pick some other aspect of being self-sacrificing if you want it on the list or be more specific
Someone who will ensure the ratio is balanced. Someone who will not constantly be 80% of doing everything for him. Indeed, it is the right doses. I believe that he should be spoiled some. But not so much that he ends up smothered.
treats him well helps him in moderation that sort of thing? it's getting a bit more subjective than i'd like just because parenting sounds fucking hard for anybody but i think i get the gist of what you're asking
So I say. And I suppose that is all that I can think of.
I could care less if the person curses or curses others. I don't even mind what hobbies that they may have -- like collecting shrunken heads. They need not even have a calm temperament. Indeed, a hotheaded person need come to be vengeful or desiring to kill someone truly, after all.
people are into weird things but fine give me a sec and i'll collect all of your requirements obviously available to edit at a later date edits have to be approved by us both blah blah i need a fucking lawyer
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But for the sake of working together, I will.
Fine.
Never killed someone.
Never wished someone dead.
Those two seem fine, yes?
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sure.
not homicidal?
i can agree to that.
what else is on your list
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We're making a list.
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Pettiness is inescapable.
But no need to go overboard and burn a man's house down.
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fine.
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everyone needs to see a therapist eventually.
what are you trying to avoid
purposeful harm to sho?
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And yes.
Someone who would purposely attempt to harm him.
Actual reasonable coping mechanisms.
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do some yoga
smoke a joint
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fine
no purposeful attempts to harm sho
define reasonable coping mechanisms
everyone deals with shit differently
non-violent?
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I agreed with that.
Now that we're both uncomfortable with that topic.
Let's never speak of it, again.
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Drinking may be fine, but no reason to be alcoholic to avoid the truth of the matter.
I suppose smoking is acceptable.
Only killing yourself with that one.
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meditation
sitting underneath a waterfall
[moving on,]
no alcoholism
only non-violent coping mechanisms
next?
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Do you want to come with me.
Mass is every Sunday.
[ Moving on. ]
A good person but not necessarily kind.
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"good"
are you even trying for objective anymore
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I apologize.
The non-self-sacrificing type, then.
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[now he's just trying to make himself laugh.]
is that really what good means to you?
not about to throw themselves into a fire?
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It's kind.
But it is not "good."
I'd get into the explanation.
However, that would require a long-winded story.
Which neither of us want to get into.
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but i'm not buying it.
being self-sacrificing is fine in the right doses
at the very least it's nothing that'd hurt sho
otherwise anyone who's
a police officer, a firefighter, or in any occupation that involves danger for the sake of helping others
isn't up for consideration
so
no
pick some other aspect of being self-sacrificing if you want it on the list
or be more specific
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Someone who will ensure the ratio is balanced.
Someone who will not constantly be 80% of doing everything for him.
Indeed, it is the right doses.
I believe that he should be spoiled some.
But not so much that he ends up smothered.
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helps him in moderation
that sort of thing?
it's getting a bit more subjective than i'd like
just because parenting sounds fucking hard for anybody
but i think i get the gist of what you're asking
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And I suppose that is all that I can think of.
I could care less if the person curses or curses others.
I don't even mind what hobbies that they may have -- like collecting shrunken heads.
They need not even have a calm temperament.
Indeed, a hotheaded person need come to be vengeful or desiring to kill someone truly, after all.
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but fine
give me a sec and i'll collect all of your requirements
obviously available to edit at a later date
edits have to be approved by us both
blah blah
i need a fucking lawyer
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